Friday, July 5, 2013

After 25 Posts - What Do We Know About Shadow? - #73


We have learned that imperfections and unrealized talents reside in the Shadow.  

Personally, the more I learn about the Shadow, the more intrigued I become! We humans are complex!  Exploring the multi-purpose, multi-chambered Shadow, we discover how foolish it is to search for perfection. 

It is fruitless to expend our energy trying to be perfect. If we are wise, striving to establish one-on-one relationships with our imperfections and hidden talents is our #1 focus. These are the intimate inner relationships that foster a feeling of well being. 

Think of the difference between (1) wanting to be special and (2) knowing you want to be special. If I want to be special and don't know that I want to be special, it is likely my requests for special treatment will take the form of demands. I will have a sense of entitlement and not even know it.  

Years ago on a tour of India a woman in our group proudly declared: "I never take the first hotel room that I'm offered!"  (The Shadow knows!)

Tune in next week for an example of how I am moving a resident of my Shadow condominium into assisted living.

Thanks for exploring the mystery - Nicky Mendenhall


5 comments:

  1. Thanks, Nicky! The shadowy parts are becoming more interesting and maybe even friendly. Continue being our good example of self-discovery!

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    1. Thanks fluteyogi! Who ever thought we would chum up with the Shadow? I'd love to hear of your Shadow experiences if you feel inclined to share.

      Have a great rest of the weekend!
      Nicky

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  2. "...moving a resident of my Shadow condominium into assisted living." Nicky, I'm crowning you Queen of Great Analogies. I love the way you make these concepts about "shadow" more understandable. Thank you!

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    1. Stacy - I got a chuckle from my words that came directly from the Muse but I didn't realize they would result in being crowned! Don't you just love it when these ideas pop in?

      Thanks for your continued support. I'd love to hear of your Shadow experiences when you are ready to share.

      Have a great Holiday weekend!
      Nicky

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  3. I am finding some very interesting shadow instruction... More when I come home

    Loving the beauty of our Earth,
    Thankful for it's abundant blessings,


    Ruth

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